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Originally Posted by hepkatmama  you are part of the 15%.
/hi-5!
girls always ask & hope the guy can just be honest (with himself mostly). but the 15% is the win. They don't base their happiness on another person usually. There isn't any mystery or deception. Clean cut, yes no, lets go, or lets not.
they don't get mad when you try to be their friend. they don't try to convince you otherwise. they don't waste their time flirting with a friend who doesn't want to be more than that. they realize the honesty in not pretending. it shouldn't be a dis to the ego, on the contrary it should make you happy to realize you are a good person that they want to continue hanging out with on a platonic level.
people can help who they find attractive imho. if i meet a wanted felon who is super hot, i can choose to put that out of my mind cause its a doomed idea. like even if i really like someone but they have no faith in intelligent design or any sense of spirituality, i can't keep having great sex with them. i know a long term relationship won't work with someone not spiritually compatible so i'm not going to waste my phermones on them.
people have self control. that whole romantic fiction about "can't help it" just comes from an addictive personality. |
Yeah, for me its pretty automatic. If we arnt gonan work then lets contribute to each others life in a constructive manner.