Im sorry to hear that redeye. The whole "its a choice" thing enrages me more than anything and I certainly would have had an all out war with my parent had they said something like that to me. Im very lucky that way. My parents (dad and stepmom) accepted it and never looked back. Even tried to hook me up a couple of times. LOL. Their taste in guys leave alot to be desired.

My mom does still tell me, if you havent tried a girl, how do you know? And I just say mom one thing makes it hard and the other doesn't. That simple.
Hope it gets better man.