People who date, then break-up, hang out

[Gaylord Focker]

And occasionally do the nasty without being "together".... I cant do it. Once theyre gone, theyre gone. Those who casually hang out with the peoples theyve dated then broken up with- your intellectual capacity is far greater than mine I reckon.


Im a simpleton.... my little brain cant handle that. Im too girly and get all attached and secretly jealous.


Just thought id say...

[reddaisy6]

don't get jealous. it's bad for your complexion.....

[Inigo Montoya]

Can be fun in the right circumstances. /shrugs All depends on those involved just like anything else. There are no blanket rules that work for all.

[Eric Scholwinski]

i actually prefer benifriends.

[Gaylord Focker]

Originally Posted by reddaisy6

don't get jealous. it's bad for your complexion.....

Tell that to my temperamental emotions.

[Gaylord Focker]

Originally Posted by Eric Scholwinski

i actually prefer benifriends.

Thats cause you could possibly be incapable of maintaining commitment and selflessness so says my dime store psychology.



Prolly not.... im just thoughtful today. =) Hope I didnt rile you little buddy.

EDIT: Eric, see, that is prolly consistent in your life... youre probably good at that particular thing because its something you perfer. If I tried to do that, id do it all wrong and turn a friendly booty call away. id text too much, or call too much.

[Ottica B]

Originally Posted by Eric Scholwinski

i actually prefer benifriends.

most people do I think but I just have friends and sometimes they benifit me.

[king donko of punchstania]

I tend to hang w/ my exes. I don't fuck them though, especially if I have a S.O. at the time. My view on hanging out w/ them at least, is that if you dated them, they were a friend to you to begin with, and why tarnish that just because you aren't compatible for a relationship?

[ONE FM]

I could do it if they wouldn't ak crazy..

[Eric Scholwinski]

lol no i like relationships don't get me wrong.

just saying the benifriends thing means we'll always bee cool and get to fuck every now and again.

[reddaisy6]

Originally Posted by Gaylord Focker

Tell that to my temperamental emotions.

man you really are a girl arent you?

do i suspect little ny hipster girls breaking your heart up there?

[Gaylord Focker]

Originally Posted by king donko of punchstania

I tend to hang w/ my exes. I don't fuck them though, especially if I have a S.O. at the time. My view on hanging out w/ them at least, is that if you dated them, they were a friend to you to begin with, and why tarnish that just because you aren't compatible for a relationship?

But my temperamental emotions prohibit my brain from remembering how cool they were and just focus on my hurting heart. I cant really turn my emotions on and off like that...


id be, either- a horrible slut, a decent gay man or a really bad gay man.

[Eric Scholwinski]

Originally Posted by Gaylord Focker

EDIT: Eric, see, that is prolly consistent in your life... youre probably good at that particular thing because its something you perfer. If I tried to do that, id do it all wrong and turn a friendly booty call away. id text too much, or call too much.

I'll give ya a hug bro.

and yes sometimes those have turn into relationships.

[Funkenstein]

Originally Posted by reddaisy6

man you really are a girl arent you?

do i suspect little ny hipster girls breaking your heart up there?

Damn, Brosephine Baker! You are totally going to harsh his mellow with that.

[-m-]

I could never do it for anyone I have actual feelings for, and I don't get into a relationship unless I do. After the breakup it's best if we don't see each other at all. I don't want to see her up on someone else and I'm sure she doesn't want to see me in the same position, so I avoid situations where that may be a possibility. It was like this especially with my most significant ex before meeting my wife. But I was the one who was wrong, and fucked up, so I thought I owed it to her to not be in her face wherever she was at.